Why Being a Romantic Sucks


Loving Your Spirit: Tips for Living a ZEN Life

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I don’t think I was made for dating in this time period.

Note to reader: The following post is ONLY about me and just for me to vent about my thoughts and feelings about this situation. If talk of sex bugs you then please skip this post.

Dear reader I don’t think I was made for dating in this time period.

I just told Denis(Friends with benefits offer) that I want the sex(because let’s be honest here dear reader no one can be a saint forever) however I really want the experience to be as fun and as stress free as possible.

At first(last week) he wanted to actually hang out with me(go to a movie with me or something) even if we didn’t have sex.

Now I told him that I don’t want to feel pressure to get naked as soon as he walked through the door.

Now he says don’t stress about it and that he changed his mind.


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And then we had anal sex.

Love, Lust, and Life

We’ve been together for a year and a month and I haven’t done anal with him because I don’t feel emotionally in sync and open with him so I just can’t go there. And I have told him I actually do like it. But the way he goes about it is not good. Instead of touching me there or asking for it while were fooling around he brings it up when we’re out in public in front of people…Yeah, how mature…

Last night after our breakup talk I laid in his bed until he got back home from going out with his brother and his friend, I couldn’t sleep because of what happened with us. He got home laid with me took his clothes off and unzipped my shorts placed his hand on top of my vagina and let it sit there. Maybe he was sensing my body language I…

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Lychees, Wine, and Sex: The Journal of Nicky Green

A Relationship?

“I just want you to consider the possibility of us being more than what we are right now,,” I said breathlessly as I watched Derrick out of the corner of my eye.  There was silence and I felt as If I would just wither and die.

“I think you’re right,” he finally replied after what seemed like the longest of times.  “I’ve wanted to talk about this since your birthday, but I didn’t know how you’d feel after our conversation a month ago.”  I breathed an internal sigh of relief and smiled at Derrick.


“Yeah.  I’ve really grown to care for you a lot in these past three month,” he said as he reached over and caressed the back of neck with his left hand.

“I feel the same way,” I whispered as Derrick inched closer to me on the couch and kissed the side of my…

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sex & therapy go together like…two things that don’t go together


i hate therapists. i hate the way they lean over their desk and make that “i’m here for you but also more professional and smarter than you” glare, then they smile at you when you make a joke and turn immediately serious again the second you say something sad. i hate their cold stares and i hate the way they purse their lips. i hate the way they get all weird when you cry, and i hate the way they say “oh, but it’s not,” when you say “it’s fine.”
i’ve jumped from therapist to therapist since i was fucking 14 years old. i know that doesn’t seem terribly young, but the emotional expense i acquired from those stupid hour-long horror sessions sticks with me. therapists make me feel uncomfortable and like i’m going to throw up.

sometimes i want to talk about all my problems with someone. but since…

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Thank You Dads

Awesome guy , Awesome Dad. Men need to be the kind of man they want their daughter to marry.

Daily Quote: Daniell Koepke

I Run This Mind

”It’s easy to feel uncared for when people aren’t able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it’s so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your worth. But the truth is that the way other people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they’re doing doesn’t even cross their mind. They aren’t inherently bad or uncaring – they’re just busy and self-focused. And that’s okay. It’s not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn’t make you unloveable or invisible. It just means that those people aren’t very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are – that despite the darkness you feel, you have the ability to share your love and light with others…

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Our lives are filled with friends be they real, imagined, or simply names from social media. For many of us we go through life devoid of friends, and by that the deep meaningful relationships built on the notion that a friend has the right and the confidence to call you out when you are being an ass. So what’s left? Friends who offer to help but never do, friends who say they care when they feel obligated to say they do, or the ones on social media who “like” your posts or offer a couple of words and move on with their lives, satisfied they fulfilled their friendship obligations for the day. And who are you? Where are you on the friend scale? Are you a “liker” or you the “you’re being an ass”? Be the ass you will be happy you did.

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